In the relationship between the sexes, the passion of love at first sight is easy to produce, however, to make this emotion lasting continuation, is much more difficult.
Because, no matter how strong and hot the initial love, if both sides do not know how to properly manage and maintain this relationship, then, this love will be in the triviality of life and time under the relentless scrubbing, slowly change its original appearance, gradually fade, until finally dissipated.
The key to not getting tired of living together is to get along with these 4 kinds of posture, as long as you master them, both sides will be able to go on for a long time comfortably.
Chatting is effortless
In a world of two people, chatting is truly a priceless commodity.
Someone once said, “Late at night, something pops into your head and you call out to her.
If she just responds, ‘What time is it? I’m so sleepy, let’s talk about it tomorrow.’ At that moment, your interest immediately dissipates.”
Husband and wife, as the closest people in life, if always unable to resonate, your thoughts she does not understand, her point of view you do not agree, can not do the resonance of the soul, and how to talk about the deep love of each other?
Countless emotions, because of communication difficulties, or because there is nothing to say, and gradually come to an end. And those who can share the melody of life with their own, is undoubtedly the most delightful existence.
All confidences are answered, all words arouse each other’s interest. Such a marriage lasts because it has the same frequency.
Talking to each other means more than just words, it is a kind of spiritual fit. It is in the day to day together, gradually accumulated tacit understanding and understanding.
It is in the long years, constantly grinding, adjusting, adapting to the results. Talking to each other is the acceptance and understanding of each other, is the deep exploration and appreciation of each other’s world.
With it, even in the face of all the challenges and changes in life, couples can work together and move forward without fear.
Willingness to share the burden when things go wrong
“How many people want to find their other half to ride out the storm together, but then realize that most of the storms in life are brought on by their other half.”
Anyone who has experienced this understands how heartfelt this statement really is.
How can the trivialities and storms of life be borne by one person alone?
Imagine two people got married, thought they could bear the burden of life together, but finally realized that all the pressure is carried by yourself alone, the other party even justified to shirk the responsibility, so that you feel at ease.
You have no choice but to learn to be silently strong by yourself and endure everywhere. You took up all the responsibility, swallowed all the bitterness.
Until you have saved enough disappointment, you will choose to leave.
But, how can life be without the companionship of a partner? True love is not a shocking moment, but a long and delicate flow of abiding together. Not a moment of passion and moving, but day after day of companionship and understanding.
When the storm comes, should have faced together, rather than fly away separately. Husband and wife, in addition to romance and passion, should have that share the storm of determination and courage. Only in this way, two hearts can really close, the day will be more and more sweet.
If there is a person willing to walk with you through thick and thin, please cherish. Because in this long road of life, there is a person to accompany, really good.
Trust each other
In the world, the meeting and acquaintance between people seem to carry a flavor of destiny.
As the old saying goes, “Ten years of cultivation to cross the same boat, a hundred years of cultivation to sleep together”, behind every deep destiny, there are countless years and chances hidden.
When two people meet in the boat of life, they may be pleased for each other’s similarities, and heartfelt for each other’s uniqueness. However, it is important to realize that true knowledge of each other does not only depend on the passion and freshness of that first meeting, but also requires the efforts and maintenance of both parties.
In a long life, couples or partners will inevitably encounter a variety of tests.
These tests may be external temptations, work pressure, money trouble, or life in the trivial and contradictions. The most important thing is trust and honesty.
I read an experiment about crossing the street that actually epitomizes trust.
Let a person put on a blindfold and cross the street with the support of the other half, and as long as he succeeds, he can get a generous prize.
A seemingly simple task that has left many couples and lovers defeated. It turns out that when the blindfolded person hears the sound of a siren beside their ears, they become fearful and no longer trust their partner’s guidance.
And it’s this distrust that causes them to remove the blindfold and ultimately fail to reach the finish line.
The same is true of trust in marriage. When suspicion and doubt arise between two people, cracks begin to appear in that otherwise strong emotional dam.
Even if they still share the same bed, but inwardly has long been separate, lost that real intimacy and mingling.
So, cherish your partner around you, it is not easy to find a person who can be with you through thick and thin and grow together. Only mutual trust, honesty and openness, in order to let this destiny really take root and blossom.
Trust each other
In the world, the meeting and acquaintance between people seem to carry a flavor of destiny.
As the old saying goes, “Ten years of cultivation to cross the same boat, a hundred years of cultivation to sleep together”, behind every deep destiny, there are countless years and chances hidden.
When two people meet in the boat of life, they may be pleased for each other’s similarities, and heartfelt for each other’s uniqueness. However, it is important to realize that true knowledge of each other does not only depend on the passion and freshness of that first meeting, but also requires the efforts and maintenance of both parties.
In a long life, couples or partners will inevitably encounter a variety of tests.
These tests may be external temptations, work pressure, money trouble, or life in the trivial and contradictions. The most important thing is trust and honesty.
I read an experiment about crossing the street that actually epitomizes trust.
Let a person put on a blindfold and cross the street with the support of the other half, and as long as he succeeds, he can get a generous prize.
A seemingly simple task that has left many couples and lovers defeated. It turns out that when the blindfolded person hears the sound of a siren beside their ears, they become fearful and no longer trust their partner’s guidance.
And it’s this distrust that causes them to remove the blindfold and ultimately fail to reach the finish line.
The same is true of trust in marriage. When suspicion and doubt arise between two people, cracks begin to appear in that otherwise strong emotional dam.
Even if they still share the same bed, but inwardly has long been separate, lost that real intimacy and mingling.
So, cherish your partner around you, it is not easy to find a person who can be with you through thick and thin and grow together. Only mutual trust, honesty and openness, in order to let this destiny really take root and blossom.
Marriage, which is more than a simple combination of emotions, is a battle that requires skill and wisdom.
Learning how to love others is undoubtedly something we pursue throughout our lives.