Between people, the most distant distance, perhaps not love and hate, but that from familiar to strange, from intimate to estranged transformation.
Some people, destined to only accompany you to walk through a period of time, and then quietly disappeared in the sea of people.
Almost everyone’s life, there is a special existence, they may be your confidant, may be your blue confidant, your relationship beyond the ordinary boundaries, but always “friendship above, lovers not yet”.
If one day, because of an accident, you slept together. How will this relationship develop afterward?
Lover’s relationship established, but difficult to sustain
Relationships, especially interactions between the opposite sex, are most mysterious.
Every character, every action, every look is full of unspeakable deep meaning. And in this drama, distance is undoubtedly the most elusive and tense element.
Once upon a time, the two knew each other as friends, but on an unconscious night, they crossed that seemingly clear boundary on impulse.
At that moment, the original simple friendship is like a broken glass, the pieces are splattered and can never be put back together.
However, this is where the joke of fate often lies.
When the relationship between the two men undergoes a subtle transformation, they realize that there is already another figure in each other’s world. He has someone else in mind, and you can only stare at his back in the dark of the night.
You try to get along in a whole new way – as lovers.
But in this relationship, you feel a kind of confusion that you have never felt before. It is no longer clear to you what attitude you should have towards him, and he, too, is no longer there for you as you would like him to be.
You begin to have more expectations of him, hoping that he can give you care and warmth like a lover.
But the reality is, you are not qualified to ask him to give up the existing life for you.
Lovers, after all, is not lovers, more not husband and wife.
The joy between you, though brief, is as brilliant as fireworks. And the relationship, like the shadow of the moon in the water, though beautiful, will eventually break.
However, even though you know the end, you are still willing to immerse yourself in the relationship and enjoy those beautiful moments.
Because in this world, there are some emotions that can’t be measured in words and can only be experienced with the heart.
Even if the relationship will eventually break, at least in this moment, you are a light in each other’s lives.
For two people who once had a heart to heart, it is almost impossible to maintain a simple friendship.
Even as time passes, occasionally, in the dead of night, those memories of the past still creep to the surface.
But that’s just a memory, a thing of the past.
Once separated, the best way is to be at peace with each other and not to disturb each other.
Some people, destined to only accompany you through a journey in life, when you reach the fork in the road, you will eventually have to go forward.
Whether it is love or friendship, are like a drama, there is the opening, there is also the closing.
When the song ends, leaving only endless feelings and memories.
Losing the identity of your lover may make your heart ache;
Losing the identity of a friend may make you reluctant to part.
But please believe that no matter how emotionally entangled, everything will become the past.
So don’t try to challenge the complexity and fragility of human nature.
Keep the appropriate distance, give each other enough space, this may be the best guardian of friendship between the opposite sex.
Emotions are a complex subject.
Some people, choosing to look at the past with forgiveness and understanding, are willing to rebuild bridges of friendship over emotional rubble.
They understand that letting go of grudges and obsessions is a way to free themselves and each other.
Some people, on the other hand, choose to turn away, letting the pain of the past become an insurmountable chasm.
They are afraid to touch those sensitive and fragile memories again, afraid that they will fall into the whirlpool of emotions again. They choose to protect themselves and use distance to heal their inner wounds.
No matter how people choose to face the past, time is always the most impartial witness.
It flows silently, taking away the pain and tears and leaving behind the memories and feelings that are worth treasuring.
In the baptism of time, we will gradually see the road ahead, learn to put down the baggage of the past, and bravely step into the future.
And ultimately, all the experiences will become the best arrangement in our life.