There is nothing more heartbreaking in love than the betrayal of a partner.
All the oaths and promises that were once made have been turned into ashes and dispersed with the wind.
Some people say that men usually cheat to pursue physical satisfaction, while women often cheat to seek spiritual comfort.
Although this is a little bit of truth, but also too generalized.
In the end, what women want is actually these two words.
Fresh
People love the new, regardless of gender.
Day by day, sometimes it does make people feel that life is a bit monotonous.
Many marriages slowly lose their initial luster and passion under the polish of daily life.
When life becomes dull and boring, women also look for new excitement outside of marriage.
In a relationship outside of marriage, they will experience a freshness that they cannot feel in their marriage.
They may not want to have any results with their lover outside marriage, but just want to bring some freshness to themselves in this way.
But a momentary craving for freshness and treating marriage as a child’s play may end up in an untenable situation.
Understanding
Someone said that the most precious relationship in the world is not simply “I love you”, but “I understand you”.
He understands your silence, understands your helplessness, accepts your little emotions and listens to your worries.
You understand his work pressure, sympathize with his exhaustion, he sees what you do for the family, notice the life of the little things.
But in some marriages, instead of understanding and recognition, a woman is ignored.
Her dedication is taken for granted, her strengths are ignored while her weaknesses are magnified infinitely.
This neglect gives way to disappointment and indifference, and as time builds up, the couple’s life is reduced to bickering and mutual consumption.
Love doesn’t disappear into thin air, it just moves elsewhere.
When a woman’s love for her partner disappears, she will transfer this love to those who can “see” her, which will lead to cheating.
Warmth
Happiness is written on the face, not on the lips.
When a woman is quiet, that down-to-earth smile that naturally spreads across her face, that is true happiness.
If the husband’s love is missing in a marriage, a woman is like a flower that has lost its moisture. Even if she is beautiful in appearance, she has lost her vitality because she can no longer smile that natural and down-to-earth smile.
I don’t know when the couple no longer kiss, no longer embrace, and even accidentally touched each other’s arms at the dinner table, will subconsciously avoid, as if there is some kind of thorn in each other’s body.
Although still sleeping in the same bed, but that wide bed in the middle, as if separated by an insurmountable chasm.
The indifference in the marriage makes the woman long for a little warmth from a stranger.
If this continues, even if she doesn’t want to cheat on her husband, she may slowly fall away when she meets someone who cares about her.
The breakdown of a family often stems from a woman’s insecurity, which often stems from her husband’s indifference.
Respect a woman’s loyalty to her marriage, but also support her ability to have the ability to leave at any time.
Don’t look for self-worth in the wrong relationship; learn to self-recognize and give yourself warmth and strength.
The responsibility of marriage is not to love each other forever, but to overcome the boredom of each other.
Marriage is like a journey where temptations and conflicts are always present.
If we always succumb to these temptations and go outside to look for freshness and excitement, we will only end up feeling lonely and empty.
Therefore, both men and women should learn to stick to their principles, not be swayed by outside temptations, and not betray their marriage so easily.
Since they have chosen to walk this path together, they should accept the constraints of marriage and assume their responsibilities to the family.
Otherwise, when difficulties come, even the strongest relationship may instantly collapse, and the good that was once there will be in vain!