Everyone is eager to have a relationship from the end, but the world of love, even if the starting point is so romantic and passionate, the end may not be able to get what you want, and sometimes even let people fall into the whirlpool of helplessness and regret.
There are always some people in life, their hearts have long been away from you, but still choose to avoid reality, attempting to continue in the false bubble with themselves and each other around.
They are afraid to face the truth, afraid to admit that their feelings have gone sour, so they choose the seemingly easy path of deception.
But the truth is, even the most subtle cover-up will eventually be pierced by time, there is no impermeable wall, there is no eternal secret.
No matter how hard one tries to cover it up, those things that have been done will one day be revealed. Especially in women, when they change significantly in these three areas, it often means that they may have betrayed the relationship and cuckolded their partner.
These changes are not empty.
Getting angry at the slightest thing and getting grumpy
In this world, there are no two leaves that are exactly the same, nor are there two people with exactly the same ideas.
Couples, even if they love each other deeply, it is difficult to avoid occasional quarrels.
Even if their hearts are close together, the triviality and heaviness of life will always be like a stone, occasionally stirring up some ripples.
Two people quarrel, not because they no longer love each other, but the reality and cruelty of life makes them have to face.
In the midst of their quarrels, they try to find common ground, or each of them takes a step back in order to move on. These fights are not to make each other miserable, but to make each other better and the marriage tougher.
However, when the wife began to frequently for the small things angry, everywhere looking for bones, always hate the husband’s shortcomings, more and more grumpy, it may mean that the marriage crisis has quietly descended.
This is not a simple quarrel, but a change in the wife’s heart, it may be that she already belongs to her husband, cuckold.
Quarrels in love are because you want the other person to cherish you more. And quarrels after marriage, if frequent, will only make each other’s heart more distant, and may even let the husband choose to leave.
Facing other members of the opposite sex of the scale becomes larger
Girls who are still in love, their life is like a serial drama, always surrounded by several male protagonists.
They are not sure who will be the final hero to go with them to the grand finale.
However, once the girls get married, their lives seem to enter a new chapter.
Those previous male protagonists are like supporting roles that are no longer so important.
Especially those girls who truly love their husbands, they automatically distance themselves from other guys.
But marriage is never a one-time thing, and some married girls may start to become especially close to other guys and talk a little ambiguously, as if implying something.
This situation tends to make their husbands feel uneasy and suspicious. In fact, it’s likely that these girls are starting to have something else in mind.
Although they may not have done betrayal things, but their hearts may have begun a silent “drama”.
They may be waiting for a suitable opportunity, and a boy who makes their hearts sing, to complete their “big show”.
Differences about the future become bigger
When two people walk into the marriage hall, they have a common expectation in their hearts: to be able to walk hand in hand with each other and realize those beautiful dreams together.
However, when the hearts of couples are no longer close to each other, when their directions begin to diverge, the marriage will be like a train heading to a different destination, gradually drifting away.
In real life, most women will become wives and mothers and quietly contribute to their families, constantly adjusting their expectations and plans in order to match the growth of their partners and the realities of their families.
Even though there are occasional conflicts and frictions, they always hold fast to the belief that they can move forward together with their partners.
However, when a married woman’s future plans begin to diverge dramatically, and she often even comes up with ideas that are unrealistic and not in line with her partner’s realities, it often means that her heart has quietly changed.
She may have found that man outside of her marriage who can make her dreams come true, and she begins to see her partner through colored glasses, with whom she has more and more disagreements.
It’s not that she has improved or changed so dramatically in herself, but her heart has begun to drift and is no longer tied to her partner.
She has begun to yearn for another man’s world and looks forward to realizing with him those dreams that she once shared with her partner.
Husband and wife, like two intersecting straight lines, from their respective points of origin, but in a particular moment to meet at a point, and together open a period of unknown journey.
In this journey, there are laughter, there are tears, there are quarrels, there are reconciliations, but the most important thing is to always keep the communication of the heart and the direction of the same.
Although life is always full of variables, sometimes we may find that our partner’s heart begins to diverge, as if the straight line that once intersected begins to deviate from its original track.
What we need at this point is not to run away or betray, but to bravely face the problem and find a solution. Because only in the face of difficulties do not retreat, in the contradiction does not escape, our marriage can go wider and wider, more and more beautiful.
Remember, marriage is not a simple trip, but a long journey.