We always think that men are more prone to cheating, in fact, women will also be attracted by the freshness.
When men and women first start to get along, they are at the stage of longing for love, when a woman will devote herself wholeheartedly to the relationship, with only the other person in her eyes.
But as time passes, especially after marriage, love may no longer be the most important part of a relationship.
Every little thing in life may have an impact on the relationship. If they feel unfulfilled in the relationship, women divert their attention and are tempted by the outside world.
So, at what age do women usually have a high incidence of cheating?
Twenty-something, impatient, difficult to resist temptation
Women in their twenties, is in the golden age of life, their emotional world is like a flower that has just bloomed, full of desire to explore everything.
At this age, they have a strong curiosity about the world and are easily influenced by the temptations around them.
They usually don’t have a lot of family burdens yet, have the cost of trial and error, and are willing to try and take risks.
But it is this desire for new things that sometimes makes them make some impulsive choices emotionally, such as a momentary fling or cheating.
And they will also pay the corresponding price for the impulsive choice.
The emotion of this age group is like a newborn flame, even if it is met with the shadow of cheating, it can be burned again in the fastest time.
35 years old, married with children, the pressure is doubled
Love and marriage are not maintained by face-saving. Even the most beautiful relationship and marriage need a financial foundation to support them.
Marriage is a transition from the romantic flowers and moonlight to the bits and pieces of daily life, which requires both romance and financial security.
It is often said, “A poor wife has a lot to lose.”
Various expenses in life, such as repaying loans, raising children, taking care of parents, all of these make women deeply appreciate the financial pressure.
I have a friend, Lili, who confided in me about her married life.
Many of my female friends say that before they get married they spend money freely and buy what they like. But after getting married, they become very thrifty because they have to worry about their living expenses every day.
If at this time, the husband is not only inconsiderate, but also spends a lot of money and only cares about his own enjoyment, then the marriage is in jeopardy.
The reality is that when you realize that you have to wake up every day worrying about making ends meet, you will want to give up on your current marriage and pursue a better life.
At 45, life is stable and emotionally empty
Most women in their forties no longer have to worry about life.
They are financially rich and carefree, and their children have grown up and no longer need to worry about them.
When their material needs are satisfied, they will be more eager for spiritual fulfillment, hoping to get more tenderness and care from their partners.
For women in this age group, if the married life becomes dull and boring, and the couple has lost the old passion, they will start to seek for freshness.
Women at this age, who are more experienced in life and more sensible and mature in their approach to relationships, are less likely to love someone with all their heart and soul without reservation as they did when they were young.
They may be more inclined to look for some excitement outside the marriage and enjoy the feeling of being cared for and valued.
At this stage, women have a strong need to be valued, and if someone takes the initiative to show them affection, they may unconsciously go down the path of cheating.
This is something that can’t be forced.
Whether it’s a relationship or a marriage, two people can only go farther if they walk hand in hand.
If one of the parties is absent-minded, can not keep the bottom line, then the relationship is very difficult to long.
In the world of feelings, loneliness is not an excuse for cheating, and loneliness is not a reason for betrayal.
No matter men or women, if you really love someone, you should treat each other wholeheartedly.
If the feelings are no longer there, should also be honest, the past feelings to deal with, so as to be in a new love comes, wholeheartedly committed