Love is not just a feeling, it is a choice, a commitment.
In this world, there are many different reasons not to love, but the expression of love is very simple.
Saying “I love you” may only take a moment, but explaining these three words takes a long time, and proving this love takes a lifetime.
To determine whether a man really love you, you can see him in addition to “I love you”, will not say these three words to you.
“I’m here.”
Whether a relationship lasts or not is not about the romance of a candlelight dinner or sweet words every now and then, but about caring for you and taking care of the little things in life.
The heartbeat of youth is beautiful, but it is not as good as the continuous tenderness and care in the years.
The best love is when you need, he is always by your side.
A man who loves you deeply will often say to you, “Don’t worry, I’m here.” It’s simple, reliable, and full of genuine emotion.
He makes you understand that life does not always have to bear alone, and you do not have to suffer in silence when you are wronged.
Because he will firmly accompany you, for you to cover the wind and rain, dispel the gloom, with practical action to fully support you, become your strong backing.
“Buy you.”
If a man always says to you, “Just tell me what you need and I’ll buy it for you.” Then you must be very important in his heart.
Although we often say that love should not be measured by money, in real life, financial support is indeed an integral part of love.
A man is willing to spend money for you, which often shows how much he loves you.
Those men who say they love you, but are stingy with you monetarily, don’t really take the relationship seriously because they don’t love you enough to think you’re not worth his money.
A man who truly loves you deeply, on the other hand, will not hesitate to give you material help when you need it.
He is willing to let you use his resources and even worries that he is not doing enough.
He understands that while money is not the only way to show love, it is the most direct way to show love.
“Let me.”
Some men may be with you not because they truly love you, but because he’s used to you being nice to him.
He may give you little surprises once in a while to make you feel like he still cares about you.
But in reality, most of the time, he is content to accept what you give him.
He spends your money, lets you do all the housework, and then occasionally says something sweet to make you feel important to him.
But don’t be silly, does such a man really love you?
Love is a two-way street. A man who really loves you won’t just ask for everything.
The more he loves you, the less he can bear to see you pay so much for him, the more he will take the initiative to want to take care of you.
“You rest, let me do it,” is what he will often say.
When you want to pay the bills, or ready to do the housework, he will always take the lead and help you share the burden.
A man like this is the one who truly loves you.
To be loved in this world is a blessing.
When you feel sad or worried, someone is willing to patiently listen to you;
When you are happy and blissful, someone to share the joy with you.
May the person you love treat you with the same sincerity, and may all your emotional input be reciprocated.
May we all receive true love and be treated with tenderness.