“A sorry, cool how many people’s hearts, a I love you, hurt how many people’s love.”
This earth has traveled a time, convergence is only a short four words, love, hate, love and hate.
The human heart is easy to cold heart is easy to cool, how many full of joy I love you, by the silence of a long time I’m sorry to draw a period.
However, the sun does not suddenly go down, the heart is not cold at once.
In every relationship before the end, there are always a lot of words and repeatedly be extinguished expectations.
When expectations fall through, love will surely fail because of repeated disappointment.
You will definitely suffer, but don’t be discouraged. There are three stages of disappointment, just get through them.
Will cry because it can not be solved
In a relationship, let the eyes swollen and eliminated, a heart every time was heavily broken, but always a piece of pick up, repair and mend.
Broken mirror is difficult to round, the water can not be retrieved, the heart has a crack, no matter how to mend, but also is just self-deception, really can trap people and more than time.
As the writer Liu Zhenyun said: “The things in the world can’t stand the scrutiny, a scrutiny, which one is hidden aggression.”
There will always be people on the sidelines painlessly said: don’t cry, crying and can not solve the problem.
But no one crying is to solve the problem, happy to laugh, sad to cry, that’s all.
If you want to cry, cry, if the heart can feel better.
But remember, after crying to dry the tears, painfully stand up, or communication or leave, the problem always have to find a solution.
It will be tolerated because it can’t be changed.
There is this line in the movie The Godfather:
“Softness without boundaries will only let the other side get an inch; unprincipled kindness will only let the other side do whatever they want.”
Tolerance for a while can not calm the waves, and a step back can not really sea and sky.
Tolerance, in fact, is a distress signal from the heart, which is telling you that you are being treated badly.
The world teaches you to be patient, but it doesn’t tell you to hold your tongue.
Since the result of the disappointment can not be changed, it is better to take the initiative to turn around and walk towards the next tomorrow.
Will laugh because there is no fear
When a snowy mountain collapses, no snowflake is innocent.
When disappointment has been saved up enough, not a single tear is shed in vain.
As it is said in the novel Candle Ashes:
“We have to accept that our desires will not be completely eliminated in this world, and that the people we love do not love us.”
Now that the answer has been silently written down in your mind, muster the courage to turn in your paper.
Love goes with the wind, and when the wind stops, the mind is at peace.
After all the pain and suffering, the obsession will eventually dissipate.
Maybe once fell into the abyss, but suffering is not precisely to set off the light.
Fearless of the wind and rain, bravely set out, you can always be your own sun!